"Grace is a weapon in the right hands"
My idea of Grace: Grace is a quality that encompasses elegance, poise, and charm. It is the ability to move with ease and fluidity, both physically and emotionally. Grace is often associated with a sense of calm and tranquility, and it is a quality that is admired in others and envied in tandem. It is a trait that can be learned and practiced, if one has the courage to surrender to the idea of what it yields. Yet it is also considered a natural disposition that some individuals possess or acquire through experience and exposure.
Grace is not just about appearance or manners, it is also about how we handle difficult situations with dignity and composure. It is allowing the person on the receiving end to "be" without restrictions. When we act with grace, we inspire others to do the same, and we create a more harmonious and peaceful world. We encourage others to grow as they observe, to stretch in fact if given the room. The primary question to ask at all times is do they have the "capacity?".
People are limited to what they possess, mentally, physically, emotionally, physically and financially! My grandmother would say it like this " You can't get butter from a duck!" When you recognize that NOTHING IN LIFE IS PERSONAL. Let me say it again, they don't lack the capacity to intentionally harm you! It is not how they are built, it is not what life and its experiences has produced in their stamina. The truth is they plain and simply don't have it. When we come to the conclusion that it is part of the process, we understand it's not personal at all, instead everything is purposeful!
When you extend grace to someone because they didn’t meet your expectations, it says more about you than it does about them. Make a habit of loving people where they are, giving people room to grow. You get what you believe you deserve, not what you want. Always keep in mind that there is someone waiting for you to embrace your highest self and believe your way to better!
The one that was designed to be exactly what you need, imperfections and all is waiting for you to trust the process! The cold part, is that the grace isn’t just for them… it’s also for you! In the meantime trust the process, give yourself the permission to grow, to heal, to love and to be loved at the level you are on. Don't seek something from someone who doesn't have what you think you need.
